Oh My Dearly Beloved Child,
You are being taken advantage of and you are aware of that deep down inside. I have seen you bailing out of trouble, someone you love, time after time. You now hardly have enough money left in case you have an emergency yourself. You are going to have to put an end to this once and for all.
It will not be easy for you to set boundaries with this person because your love for them has caused you to be out of touch with the reality of your situation.
You are so afraid of losing this persons love by not supplying all their needs that you constantly let them bully you into giving them everything they want.
The problem is, my beloved, that everyone who is able to work, should be making their own money. This person does not know how to handle responsibility and every time you continue to bail them out of financial difficulties you are only making it less likely they will ever be able to stand on their own two feet.
You are going to have to learn how to say NO. You are going to have to do it out of love. You will not always be around and this person will have to take care of themselves sooner or later. It is better for them to learn the hard lessons of life now, then when it is much later in their life.
You have been co-dependent with this person for far too long. You are codependent with them because you have not taught them to respect you at all. You poor health is a direct result of this persons emotional strain on your life. You know you shouldn’t be going through all your savings but you do it anyway, simply so that they will be around you.
Your self esteem is suffering from knowing deep down inside that all you are to this person is an ATM. It is time for you to find out once and for all if this person will still love you when you cut off the financial resources and make them take responsibility for themselves.
My beloved, I love you too much to see you suffer in this way and be treated badly only to hope to gain the love and affection of this person.
The reason that I give you free will to choose me or not is because I want you to love me as your Father. I want you to respect me and serve me out of love whether I ever answer a prayer or not.
You cannot go through life buying peoples love without feeling badly about yourself. You too need to want people to love you and be around you simply because they want to do that, not because they know if they don’t spend time with you, you will not give them money, pay their bills, and supply a roof over their head.
It’s time to say no, knowing that I will back you. I will be there to comfort you. When you learn to stand up to this person you will notice your self-esteem will return.
You cannot stand the arguing and the constant bullying of you verbally when this person does not get their way and so you give in.
It’s time for you to give an ultimatum to this person. What will you really lose in the long run if you do lose this person.
Imagine your life free of the constant begging, the constant bullying and the constant lack of money for your basic needs because you have supported a grown person who is perfectly capable of supporting his or herself.
I am going to flood you with confidence. I am going to see that you have enough confidence to let this stop for once and for all. As you confront this person with the truth, I will go with you. You will not be leaning on your strength but upon mine. As you open your mouth to set boundaries and let the person know you cannot go on like this, it will not be your words coming out of your mouth but those of the Holy Spirit giving you the exactly right things to say.
It’s time to make a clean break. You will be surprised at how much less anxiety you will have and how much better you will sleep when you do the right thing. You have put this off for much too long. I long to take you forward in this journey but you are stuck in your codependency with this person.
I want to assure you that you will be surprised at how much more respect you will have for yourself in six months time. When you are free from this burden, the things you deserve will flow into your life easily and effortlessly.
As a loving father I know that at times my children have to learn the hard way. I know that if I do not let them suffer the consequences of their actions they will never mature. You must realize now, that you need to follow my example. This person having to take care of themselves, for once, will make them so much stronger and in the long run you will never regret cutting them off and setting boundaries.
I want to execute my new plans for your life and the sooner this burden is off your shoulders the quicker that will happen for you. Trust me, and trust the plan I have for your life and believe me when I say that what you are experiencing now, through constant bullying, is not it.
In My Never Ending Love,
Galatians 1:10For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.”
Galatians 5:1Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
Proverbs 29:25 0The fear of man bringeth a snare: but whoso putteth his trust in the LORD shall be safe.